Finding Power and Purpose in Your Private Pain - Part 1
I have some very special people in my life who are suffering in silence. No difficulty or suffering is easy, but to suffer in silence is, in my opinion, the hardest thing of all.
We’ve all been inspired by people whose stories of grief and pain were turned into a platform of inspiration and overcoming. We’ve read their books, watched their movies, and shared their stories on our social media feeds, from pulpits, and over coffee. While we wouldn’t trade places with them, we can see how their suffering was transformed into something good. It’s obvious from the massive number of people they help. It’s even possible to assume that they also recognize their valley as a springboard for victory. Courage shared is strength given. If there is meaning in suffering, surely this must be it.
There is Never “Nothing You Can Do”
I have had several conversations this week in which the belief in helplessness or hopelessness was prominent. Those two beliefs often go together. It’s hard to say which one comes first. Ultimately it doesn’t matter. I don’t believe either one is necessary or inevitable. If you are feeling one or both of those right now, I want you to know it can be changed. Your situation can be altered. First, we change the belief. Then we change our actions. Then we change our situation.
Is Loving Something Worth it if You Know You’re Going to Lose it?
Is loving something worth it if you know you are going to lose it? I think it is, but to explain, I need to tell you a story.